7-Eleven

7-Eleven,难道我们要讨论楼下的便利店吗?

No No No… 

7/11,它定格了一个时间,一个值得我(们)一生铭记的日子。这一天,我和F同学决定在一起~

让时光回到2008年,南方的冰灾,汶川的地震,北京的奥运,以及金融市场的动荡都让这一年显得格外特别。而在那个炎炎夏日,我有幸加入了一个新的班集体,同时也搬到了靠近食堂的那个不拘一格的八边形教室。正是由于这个奇特的教室布局,奇数的座位列让每次换位时都有可能和其他同学成为新同桌。在不知道经过多少次轮转,F同学变成了我的同桌。并不像偶像剧写的那样,我和F同学之间并没有太多的故事,只觉得她是一个挺文静的女生。随后高三分班,以及后面的高考结束,我选择去北京后转道德国,F同学去了上海。我们在此期间应该有几次联系,印象比较深的是一次清晨去于利希的车上,至于内容,猜测无非是生活琐碎和未来的打算吧。

转眼到了2017年秋天,我毕业到上海找工作,我计划在交大附近找一间公寓方便参加校招宣讲会,于是联系上F同学。沟通一番,最后阴差阳错去到了闵大荒,一番折腾之后,加入了上海一家公司,后续被安派到合肥工作。

2018年5月,F同学联系我说有一个去美国交流的机会,希望我帮她修改下发给美方supervisor的父亲的邮件,结果很快有了反馈,我的邮件也许在其中有一点小小的贡献吧。最后,F同学在Deadline前拿到了去美国的签证材料,飞赴美利坚。

2019年10月,我向F同学请教了一下互联网在线医疗的问题,从那之后,我们的交流变得频繁起来。有一天,她告诉我说,医院来了一个患有眼睛恶性肿瘤的6岁小男孩,虽然经过几次化疗,却依然很坚强,她希望送小男孩一个礼物。那一刻,我发现F同学很美,而在感情上后知后觉的我突然发现好像已经喜欢上了她。

随后就是有事没事地找F同学聊天试探,终于在202.06.19(也许是命中注定,这天正好是F同学的生日)被她看破了我的小心思,问我是不是有点喜欢她,看着屏幕上的文字,我总算做了也许是这辈子最勇敢也最正确的回复。

2020.07.11,上海陆家嘴国金中心6号口,当F同学一袭白裙向我跑来,我又回忆起那个12年前,坐在我旁边那个安静的女生,这一次,却多了一份甜。

New decade – New adventure

First day of 2020, I am sitting at a book store writing the first blog of the new year.

Das ist Leben

I am facing the touch career choice — staying in current semiconductor industry as an Engineer or being an Equity Research at a security company in Shenzhen.

I have so many concerns. First, the location, I prefer Shanghai. If the offer is in Shanghai, maybe I wouldn’t think much of it and just go.

Before I got the offer, I am 100% sure that I would go to finance industry. But when it really comes, I found out that it is really difficult to give up all I have now. Do I lack the courage to face new challenge.

For 2020, I have so many wishes. The vitalest one is to meet someone that loves mutually. Dan is one of the good choice, she is kind and smart, I think it works for both of us, however, If I go to Shenzhen, I have no idea what will happen. I also want to keep fit by running, 1000km at the end of the year is my target. Last, reading more and keeping curious, and cherishing the moment.

Easy doesn’t enter into grown-up life.